I feel guilty
- when ever I say I will do ‘so and so’ and did nothing about it.
- for using some one without properly rewarding them for it.
- did shout at some one, and learned that it(not shouting) was actually my mistake.
Of these, the first one is causing lot of pain these days. In last one year I think I might have booked more than 4 domain names for doing different kind of things. Most of all are dead now, I am not doing anything. The reason is simple to explain. I expected more out of my small acts. I stopped at the first sight of trouble.
Luckily, I do get lot of new ideas, and hopefully will try to work on some thing very seriously. Commitment is very imp for people like me.
What about you guys? Same story?
Last year we could hardly hear our TV sound between 9 to 10 Diwali day. We were pissed off and turned TV off. But this year, we could hardly tell that it is Diwali day at 10:30. It was complete silence at that time.
I am sure people have burnt < 50% of what they did last year. I am not sure what is the reason. Is it just that cost of crackers went high? or people getting wise?
Anyway I am happy, less sound pollution, and less money wasted.
If there is a question that I wanted to ask most to others and did not ask that is it. “DO YOU NEED A LIFT?”
On an average I get a chance to ask this question every day. But I almost never asked. I know that other person needs a lift. They know that I know(Assumption). I expect them to ask. They almost never ask. I think that they think that I wont give.
Whose responsibility is to break that loop? Do I have to wait until they ask?
When ever I was walking other than for the sake of walking, I always expected some one would ask that. But I know no one will ask. I hesitate to ask then for lift. I hope every one is thinking same.
Now lets think that I have changed, do you like some stranger in 30+ age stop by and ask “Do you need a lift?” what is the probability that you will agree? What if you are a Female(all ages)? What do you think about that person?
Please share your views… I have been thinking about it for very long time, I want to find a solution soon.
It happened many times. Many people said that I should stop thinking more and enjoy. Or stop doing some thing else that they thought I am doing and start enjoy life.
I don’t really know what they really mean by enjoyment. I define enjoyment as follows..
You have 5 to 10 times more money than what your present average is, and you still don’t change some thing that you are doing, then I say you are enjoying doing it.
For example, if your job is X and some one pays you 5 times your salary to do Y, but you still want to do X, then you enjoy doing it. That means while doing X you enjoy.
Simple is in’t it? Now fortunately for me, it is almost 90% of what I do. For some people it is going out on road. For some it is some thing else. For me, it is what I am doing already. I didn’t get much enjoyment when I saw Charminar for the first time(after 10 years in hyd). So each person gets enjoyment in different way.
So those people who keep suggesting that I should enjoy more, thank you for your concern, I really appreciate your intentions. But I am already enjoying my life.
I think there is some thing wrong in our culture when it comes to thinking about other people. May be I am exaggerating the issue.. But let me explain
We see Hero in movie takes money from all kinds of people and keeps running from them. We have seen it in many comedy movies. (Just now I was watching one of such movie). I wonder why we really enjoy that part. I know that we do enjoy, every one does. But why? Does cheating some one makes us happy? Does getting cheated makes some one happy? I am sure it wont.
If we see from the other person’s point view surly more than 90% of comedy films do not create any comedy.
Is this kind of behavior is inherent in our nature? Or is it some thing we acquire on the way?
I will surly do some experiments with kids(when they are available 
) to findout about it.
Some time back I have written a blog post that says that G+ is going to replace Facebook faster than anything. As many of you already seen it, I am totally wrong. Now the question is why did I thought it would happen first of all. May be it will happen in future, but how can we say it.
I don’t know what all features G+ is going to put into it. I don’t know how Facebook is going react to any of the features in G+. I don’t know in any sense what people want.(except what I want).
Now I see that the following are the reasons why I said what I said.
- For some reason, I was thinking that Facebook is evil, and Google is better than it.
- I have assumed that Google will do what I always thought, But I totally forgot, that what I wanted is a just a single feature that any one can do.
- Assumed that many people will think like me.
- It is almost impossible to predict the feature. Which I neglected.
Lets hope I will not do the same mistake again…
There are lot of things I should have done, but did not do till now. There are lot of things I wanted to do but did not do yet. There is a lot which I should not have done, but was done.
I want to know if there is any one who can spend 15min or so thinking for me, and tell me what to do. My goal is simple. I want to be a happy man, responcible towards society, and rich at the same time. Other than this I hope you may have some idea of what I want anyway. And there are things which you can tell to anyone without knowing anything about them.
Here are some things which I think I should be working on…
- Improve Health
- Enjoy most of the time
- Get some friends, who can spend time thinking about me
- Increase social participation
- Increase investments in Business & Technology
And the order or priority is also as mentioned.
Now, the question is, tell me what I should be doing. If you need any more information, send me a mail or msg. I will contact you and will get your suggestions directly. If you want to keep them private, send to my mail id. Else post them here.
Update:
It seems many have misunderstood what I am asking here. I am not asking you to change the priorities that I have listed here. I am not asking to choose some of them.
What I am actually asking is to tell me what I need to do to achieve all above points.
For example
Increase Health: Get up at 6AM, Do exercises, Don’t drink cool drinks, Become Vegetarian etc..
Enjoy most of the time: Read so and so book, Mediate for some time, See so and so director movies, Get friends etc.
As you see, I am asking for specific things to do. Things I should be able to do if I choose to. Clear specific steps of what to do and what not to do. Do not tell me generic steps which have multiple meanings and multiple interpretations.
I am wondering why are they are not giving more than one Phone Number for a single SIM card?
From what I understand, your number is just what they have in backend. It is nothing to do with the communication between you and your cell phone tower.
So they can give multiple number and any call to any number will be redirected to same call phone. Is it not possible? Hey any tele-communication guys over here?
If it is already existing, then I think I would have had at least 3 numbers.
- One for family
- One for business
- One for social
Not only me, I think crores of people in this country will need more than one number. As of now they have to carry these many phones or buy Dual SIM phones.
Telephone operators can change more money for the existing resources they are giving. Just software change, and get some millions.
What do you think is love? And according to your definition of love, is it possible for some one to love a person for more than 3 years up to today and hate that person from tomorrow?
According to my definition of love it is not possible. If any one says it is possible then they will depend on what that person did today?.
Now you came to the correct point. This is where my actual question starts.
What do you need to hate some one you loved upto now?
Most of us think it is not possible. Even I also think same. But in the video documentary called “COSMOS” Carl Sagan explains about an giant Ice asteroid hit the earth at around 1910. He tells that due to the impact every tree around 20km from the ground zero of impact burned.
How does it possible? How can Ice burn? If any of you have any idea, let me know.
