Q1: Define ‘Girl Friend’
Ans: As of now the definition is “some one who likes to spend time with me”
Q2: Spend time means? going to movies.. talking for hours? meeting outside the house?
Ans: Or just sitting in same room and reading her own book. No need for hours. Minutes are enough. No need for it to be outside, my home is a comfortable place.
Q3: You are a married man, why would anyone wants to spend time with you?
Ans: Whether I am married or not is nothing to do with if some likes me or not. For example I like Aiswarya Rai. May be what I like maybe her beauty. So it is nothing to do with her marriage. I like her same irrespective of her marriage status. So same here. No one will like me for the certificate being single. Most probably if any one will like me that must be because of what I think and what I do. (Or may be their imagination of what I think and what I will do). Not the certificate. Now what do I have for some one to like me that is totally different question.
If some one likes me only if I am single, that means they might be looking for safety, security and insurance of marriage. I don’t mean to say they are irrelevant. For some girls those things may be needed. But for most of the girls in this generation they are overrated old concepts.
Q4: Is it really a girlfriend or a friend who is a girl you are looking for?
Ans: In relation to this post I am referring to girlfriend. Of course why would I not like having one more friend. But most probably no one needs wife permission for just a friend. So I am really looking for a girlfriend. If some one just wants to be a friend, and not girlfriend, then I am fine with it. Welcome.
Q5: With girlfriend there will be feelings, love and things like that, is your wife really okey with it?
Ans: Yes, I have permission to even to live-in with my girlfriend. (not saying that it is a requirement, but just in case). If some one really have a doubt, please reach out to her and confirm your doubts if any.
Q6: Is she mad or crazy?
Ans: She is fine. Crazy or not depends on what you believe in.
Q7: Are you both going through divorce or will get divorce after you get your girlfriend?
Ans: No not at all. We are very happy with each other. No thought of divorce as of now. We don’t think having a girlfriend will make any difference to that decision.
[These are some of the questions asked by family members and some are added by myself for clarity. If you have any more questions, I am happy to provide answers.]